INTRODUCTION

From the correspondence files ….

Hi Greg,
Good to hear from you. Yes, I'd be happy to suppy information and eventually, perhaps, some specific suggestions. Problem is, there are so many different approaches to making a space to play in (in which to play!) so, for starters, expect more questions than answers.

Your letter sent me back to the Information Pack I put together to avoid having to remember all the alternatives and possibilities to be considered. This topic can be approached from a lot of different angles.

Look on what follows as a compendium; a pick-and-mix, grab-bag of ideas which was put together to encourage players of a whole range of very different games to focus on one simple issue - space in which to make your preferred activities more comfortable, achievable, safe or satisfying.

Get back to me when you've answered a few of the opening questions and explored a few of the alternatives which might suit your immediate needs - or excite your wildest fantasies.

Jim (Dec 2004)

 

alternatives - possibilities - practicalities

for people into
wrapping, strapping, chaining or tying
as a pleasurable pastime.

collected and edited
by
Jim Stewart

A DISCUSSION DOCUMENT

How do you imagine the ideal place for you to play in? ...
... and does it have to remain a total fantasy

WHERE TO BEGIN - AND WHY?

Different activities need different equipment, and space is often the limiting factor ... true or false?
Alternatively, for a lot of people cost is the bottom line,
while for others the everyday circumstances of their lives are what set limits.

To approach this many-sided topic - make your point of departure, one simple question ...
... what's in it for me?

What you're looking for is probably somewhere in the the following collection of notes - but - the answers you need
will depend entirely on your individual circumstances.

WHERE ARE YOU 'AT' AT THIS MOMENT IN TIME?

Just as each reader will have different sexual likes and dislikes, he or she will also have a different starting point if thinking about 'space'.

The D.I.Y enthusiast planning to convert an attic or cellar will need to look at a range of alternatives different from those of the occasional player who's bedroom or living space must sometimes double as a playspace.

Well-heeled professional parents who can afford to rent a separate place for sexual games away from the family, have totally different priorities to the still-living-at-home-with-mum game player who might occasional need to carry his/her toys when travelling to meet a play-partner or rent an hotel room.

It can be any enjoyable exercise to explore from all angles the subject of space in which to do … WHATEVER!
Getting your priorities in order first may sound like common sense - but don't be too 'sensible'.
Enjoy this opportunity to refresh your thinking and widen your horizons.

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